It is good to love yourself the way you are, but there is also pleasure in being attractive.
Part of our self esteem is set by what we do for ourselves and how we act. Everyone needs to be held to some sort of standard otherwise it is very easy to let everything go and just be basic. You should definitely work on being more attractive for yourself first before thinking of anyone else. Whatever you do to yourself will be of benefit to the man you will be with and to the people around you. A better you basically means a happier you which means a better life. Here are things you could try to be more attractive and irresistible.
1. Take care of your body.
Whether thick or thin a healthier body is more appealing. When you take care of your body you will probably glow plus look and feel better.
2. Try be more natural.
Looking plastic is a turn off for most men and almost deceitful. Keep it simple and appreciate your natural self.
3. Make your own money.
Because there is nothing more appealing than a woman who doesn’t wait for a man to do things for her.